My day breaks with a cup of hot coffee. It so happened that I had to join a group of colleagues that I do not normally sit with. (I am choosy in the company as I am in many other things). For some reasons, the topic of discussion(?) landed on the young guys dating girls(ladies?) older to them. The guys are very much ok with it. One of my colleague said that this is so common these days and what she saw in KL was quite shocking and surprising. The reasons given by my colleague were true though it sounded stupid.
1. Money. Older ladies have secured monthly income; she is very useful for your pocket money which you can use for other girls (what do you call this?), buying new clothes, book your flight tickets, (oh man i bet you must be lucky) etc, etc
2. She may likely to have a good transport, however small the car is, in some cases smaller the better.
3. Washing clothes, cooking, doing all the servant work….wait, nothing more is meaningful than this for girls for her man who truly loves and deserves. I heard that a guy is so particular in girl friend whichever place he goes to help him with cooking, washing, cleaning, etc. When I heard about him, I couldn’t help but to pity him!
Recently I was watching history channel. The Empress of Russia, Catherine, was so fond of having young lovers one after another,(was it dating?) after the death of her husband. Well, that was a royal business and nobody else’s.
So, this is not new. Ever since the human kind exists this strange or weird(whatever) relationship also exists.
But there is a difference. The percentage and the purpose: these days the percentage is higher comparatively and the purpose is very obvious: convenience.
Some of the untold rules of the guys of today are:
· As long as I am with you we are the centre of the universe, and you are everything to me. But the moment I am out of your sight, I am not your business or botheration anymore and do not ask where I am, what I am doing.
· I will do anything at anytime I want to do. You shouldn’t care about it.
· I will call you only when I want to call you.
· I will see you only when I want to see you.
· I don’t care if you have something called heart or feelings. To quote june (B……t), it’s your problem.
· I won’t commit anything to you.
Personal is personal: When you two love each other, what is the personal matter, unless you have something else in your mind?
And the list goes on and on…
Fine, life is all about companionship as my friend said once (not to me!). Don't manipulate the companionship for your selffishness.
Life, to you, may seem to be entertaining, but its not fair to hurt the innocecnt souls who are ready to do anything for you by trading off their love.
Because, life Is a fair game!
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